How Many IVF Attempts Should You Try?
Your journey to parenthood may be challenging, but you are never alone. At GEM Hospital & IVF Centre, we believe that where there is hope, there is always a way. Many couples often ask, "How many IVF attempts should we try before giving up?"
This is not just a medical question — it's an emotional one, too. In this blog, we will guide you through what you should know about IVF attempts, what affects your chances, and when to keep going — or take a pause — so that you can make the best decision for your family and your future.
Understanding IVF: A Ray of Hope
IVF (In Vitro Fertilization) is a process where an egg and sperm are combined outside the body and then the embryo is transferred into the uterus. It gives hope to millions of couples who struggle with infertility due to various reasons like blocked fallopian tubes, low sperm count, PCOS, unexplained infertility, or age-related factors.
For many couples, IVF brings success in the first cycle. But for others, it can take more than one attempt. And that's completely normal.
How Many IVF Cycles Are Considered Normal?
Medical research shows that the success rate of IVF increases with the number of attempts. Studies suggest that women under 35 have about a 40% chance of success per cycle, but after three cycles, the chance of success can go up to 60-70%.
So, should you stop after the first failed attempt? Not at all. The reality is that IVF is not always successful on the first try. On average, couples may need 2-3 IVF cycles to achieve a pregnancy.
Why IVF May Fail The First Time
There are many factors that can affect your chances:
Common Factors That Affect IVF Success
- Age: Female fertility naturally declines with age, especially after 35.
- Embryo Quality: Sometimes embryos may not be genetically strong.
- Uterine Factors: Conditions like fibroids or polyps can affect implantation.
- Lifestyle Factors: Smoking, obesity, stress, and poor diet can lower success rates.
Knowing the reason for a failed cycle helps your fertility specialist improve the next one. At GEM Hospital, we do a detailed review to understand what went wrong and how we can correct it.
When Should You Try Again?
Emotionally, a failed cycle can be heartbreaking. It's important to take time to recover physically and mentally. Most doctors suggest waiting for at least one menstrual cycle before trying again, but your doctor will guide you based on your health.
Questions to Discuss with Your Specialist
- Did we learn anything from the failed cycle?
- Can we adjust medication, procedures, or lifestyle?
- Are there additional tests we should do before the next cycle?
- What are the realistic chances for the next attempt?
- Are there any alternative treatment options?
How Many IVF Attempts Are Safe?
There is no strict medical limit to how many IVF cycles you can try. However, your age, overall health, emotional wellbeing, and financial capacity must be considered.
A large study in the UK found that up to six IVF attempts can still be reasonable, especially if you and your doctor are adjusting the treatment plan each time.
Remember, every couple's journey is unique. Some succeed early, some need more tries, and some find other ways to build their family, like donor eggs, surrogacy, or adoption.
Factors to Consider Before Each Attempt
- Physical health: Are you physically ready for another cycle?
- Emotional resilience: How are you coping mentally and emotionally?
- Financial resources: Can you afford another cycle without financial stress?
- Medical advice: What does your fertility specialist recommend?
- Alternative options: Are there other paths to parenthood to consider?
How To Improve Your Chances Before The Next Attempt
Here are some steps you can take to boost your chances for the next IVF cycle:
Lifestyle Improvements for Better Success
- Eat a healthy, balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, and whole grains.
- Maintain a healthy weight.
- Quit smoking and limit alcohol intake.
- Manage stress with yoga, meditation, or counseling.
- Follow all doctor's advice and attend regular check-ups.
- Get adequate sleep (7-8 hours per night).
- Take prescribed supplements consistently.
At GEM Hospital, our experienced fertility team supports you at every step, with advanced technology and personalized care.
You Are Not Alone — We Are With You
Trying multiple IVF cycles can be emotionally and financially draining, but remember that you are stronger than you think. Always keep an open conversation with your fertility doctor. If repeated cycles are not working, they will guide you with compassion about your options and alternatives.
Alternative Paths to Consider
- Donor eggs or sperm: Can improve success rates in certain cases
- Surrogacy: When uterine factors are the main issue
- Adoption: A beautiful way to build your family
- Living child-free: A valid choice that some couples make
Trust The Process, Trust Your Team
So, how many IVF attempts should you try? The answer is: as many as your body, mind, and heart allow — guided by the expertise of your fertility specialist.
For many couples, success comes in the second or third attempt. For some, it may take longer. At GEM Hospital & IVF Centre, we stand by you with hope, expertise, and unwavering support.
Your dream of parenthood is worth every effort — and you never have to walk this path alone.
Reach Out to Us TodayIf you have questions about your IVF journey, let's make your dream come true, together.